No Mud, No Lotus by Thich Nhat Hanh
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Thich Nhat Hanh, a global spiritual leader, poet, and leader brings the purpose of suffering to light in No Mud, No Lotus. He stresses that suffering and happiness are tied up with each other. “Where there is suffering, there is happiness. “
Thich Nhat Hanh explains how suffering is an integral part of being human and how it can be transformed into happiness. Running away from it is counterintuitive. Through mindfulness, we can navigate through it without getting overwhelmed. First, we need to accept its existence by taking mindful breaths that bring our minds home to our bodies. In this way, our minds stop rambling. Then, to make the transformation easier, we understand the root cause of our suffering by examining ourselves first. The pain of our ancestors is ours, too, so if we heal ourselves, we are also healing them. Breathing exercises are the main practices to transform suffering into happiness. These breathing exercises are included in the last part of the book. Thic Nhat Hanh also offers how to handle life’s small and big sufferings and how to sustain happiness.
I enjoyed reading this book. It is a short book but packed with thought-provoking nuggets on suffering, happiness, and life. The breathing practices are easy to understand and follow. I recommend it to those who are interested in the power of breathing and the art of transforming suffering into happiness.
The Spy by Paulo Coelho
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A world-renowned writer deciphers the innermost feelings and thoughts of the most famous exotic dancer in Paris in the mid-1910s a week before her execution. Paulo Coelho depicts the life of a Dutch woman, Margaretha Geertruida Zelle, also known as Mata Hari, in his biographical fiction, The Spy, in a form of letters written by her and her lawyer, Edouard Clunet, who was also her lover.
Mata Hari recounts her life from the time her father went bankrupt and her mother died to the time she was imprisoned in France. Her life is a story of survival. She used her charm and courage to take risks, creating a dangerous fire she played with until she got burned. At 18, she married a captain who was living in Dutch East Indies now known as Indonesia, 21 years her senior. His alcoholism and physical abuse had taken a toll on her so she left him and went to Paris, penniless and all alone. She reinvented herself as an exotic dancer that made her famous overnight. From Margaretha Geertruida Zelle to Lady MacLeod to Mata Hari, she became “the fascination of men and the envy of women.”
Eventually, as she came to be a courtesan to military men from different countries, she was approached to spy for Germany and then later on to be a double agent for France. Contrary to stories that constructed Mata Hari as a femme fatale, she was ineffective as a spy as she only provided unhelpful information. Despite this, the head of the French military intelligence who recruited Mata Hari as an espionage agent, Captain Georges Ladoux, had her arrested for spying against France. On October 15, 1917, she was shot to death by a firing squad. Many years after, it was found that the Mata Hari trial was a sham.
The Spy is a creative, reflective narrative infused with Coelho’s own interpretation of what Mata Hari may have felt and thought about God, life, love, and power. The prologue was exquisitely written. The detailed sequences of events– from the time she woke up in her cell at 5 in the morning to the moment she was declared dead– give a slow-motion effect that evoked a feeling of sympathy for the woman who was sentenced to die for an accusation founded on weak evidence.
On the other hand, The Spy is my least favorite Coelho book. The use of figurative language fused sentimentality into the narrative but it didn’t fit my expectations. Perhaps, watching Mata Hari’s documentary and reading her history first ruined the experience for me. I’ve learned my lesson.
Learning to Love Math by Judy Willis
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I was a school teacher before and I taught Math to elementary school students. I know how frustrating it is for many students when they don’t get the lessons. It’s just hard to love Math. In her book, Learning to Love Math, Judy Willis shows that, with the right mindset and teaching strategies, it’s not hard to love this subject.
Needless to say, the brain is the organ that we use in learning. Understanding how it works helps students open their eyes to their learning needs, strengths and weaknesses, and their ability to improve their performances. In addition to the “Gray Matter” sections that talk about brain functions, Willis also offered the Brain Owner’s Manual that teachers and parents can use as a reference in discussing the three main components of the brain responsible for absorbing and processing information.
To support students through the learning process, Willis shared loads of strategies to help students change their attitudes towards Math, accomplish challenges, reduce mistake anxiety, increase motivation, and apply Math in real-world situations. It must be noted, though, that the strategies are garnered from Judy Willis’ experience as an elementary and middle school teacher. Nevertheless, both elementary and high school students can still find the information in this book helpful.
Our brain has the ability to change, adapt, and modify. It takes time, though, but with motivation and practice, we can develop positive attitudes towards things that we find difficult such as Math. I recommend Learning to Love Math to teachers and parents who want to help their kids love Math.
Smaller and Smaller Circles by F.H. Batacan
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One theory why there aren’t many serial killers in the Philippines is the prevalence of gossip culture in neighborhoods and workplaces. Anything suspicious will be on the radar of prying eyes and ears. But in FH Batacan’s Smaller and Smaller Circles, a serial killer was able to slaughter scrawny and feeble boys and dump their dead bodies in a landfill in Metro Manila without being caught for seven months. A Jesuit priest, Father Gus Saenz, investigates this gruesome crime with the help of his colleague and protege, Father Jerome Lucero.The investigation plays out against the backdrop of social injustice, the Catholic Church sexual abuse scandal, and government corruption.
It was exciting to follow the fast-paced story as the two main characters gather pieces of information and lead. Father Gus Saenz is likable and his expertise as a forensic anthropologist makes his character more believable. His character works well with Father Jerome Lucero, Saenz’s colleague and protege who is a clinical psychologist. As the story advances, the author throws morsels of the killer’s thoughts, revealing his state of mind that piqued my curiosity about the reasons why he murders young boys.
The social issues touched in this novel add another dimension to the story. F H Batacan worked in the Philippine intelligence community for ten years witnessed the inept system of the Philippine government in providing security and justice to Filipino citizens especially the poor ones living in slum areas. This angers her that’s why she wrote the book. But then, she didn’t show the reaction of the community where the victims live. She factored out the gossip culture. In the prologue, the body of a victim was found in the landfill by a boy and he told the other priest who oversees the parish in the community. A throng of people gathered around the site. For sure, the news about the murder would spread like fire, parents would be scared for their kids, schools would be alarmed, and the local politicians would know right away. I want to know how these factors affect the serial killer’s plan and the priests’ investigation. In spite of this, it’s still a good read.
The Book of Beautiful Questions by Warren Berger
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Warren Berger’s The Book of Beautiful Questions is a cornucopia of questions that help us become better versions of ourselves. It has more than two hundred questions about decision-making, connecting with others, leadership, and inquiring about life. Berger’s further discussion of these topics is illustrative and illuminating but can be dragging. I love the Index of Questions. It’s easier to find the contents that are valuable to me.
The Bookbinder’s Daughter by Jessica Thorne
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Why do we have libraries?
Some say that libraries serve as gateways to knowledge and culture that support learning, innovation, and creativity. In Bookbinder’s Daughter, Jessica Thorne, the author, conceives a story about the role of libraries in our society with a magical twist. It’s my first time reading this kind of story and I couldn’t stop myself from reading on until I find out the connection of the enigmatic Ayredale Library to a possible apocalypse triggered by the selfishness and greed of some people working in this library.
The main character is unforgettable and relatable. Sophia’s love for her mother and struggle with depression and trauma caused by the disappearance of her mother who was a bookbinder in Ayredale make me root for her. Relief washed over me when her elusive childhood memories gradually returned to her as she worked at the library. Her courage and sacrifice, in the end, kindled my appreciation of maternal and familial love.
The most exciting part for me is the revelation of the power that the library possesses through one of the characters whom I didn’t expect to be the conduit of apocalyptic magic. The descriptions of the images and the sound carried me to that scene, invoking the emotions of awe and fear. The effects they have on me are still the same even on the second or third reading. Experiencing as if what I am reading is real is the reason why I love sci-fi and fantasy stories and The Bookbinder’s Daughter is one of the best I’ve read so far.
Thank you, Jessica Thorne, Bookouture, and NetGalley for the ARC (ebook and audiobook) in exchange for an honest review.
Feeling & Knowing by Antonio Damasio
⭐⭐⭐🌠☆
Feeling and Knowing by Antonio Damasio, a Portuguese-American neuroscientist, is the most difficult book I’ve read this year. Curious about how and why we have feelings, I got down to it but with a little apprehension that I might not fully understand what I am reading. True enough, it was challenging to comprehend the science behind feelings and thinking but I did get some golden nugget of information. In this short book, Damasio talks about being, mind, feelings, and consciousness from the point of view of a neuroscientist. For Damasio, “feelings are not purely mental; that they are hybrids of the mind and body; that they move with ease from mind to body and back again; and they disturb mental peace.” Feeling and Knowing is a kind of book that I must reread to grasp its contents.
Thank you, Antonio Damasio, Knopf Doubleday Publishing Group, Pantheon, and NetGalley for the ARC in exchange for an honest review.
Partner Pursuit by Kathy Strobos
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Kathy Strobos’ Partner Pursuit is a light, heartwarming chick lit about Audrey Willems, a lawyer working in New York who fights tooth and nail to become a law firm partner but also pulls out all the stops to find a romantic partner. It isn’t an easy journey for Audrey. Along the way, the internal and external conflicts jeopardize the realization of her goals and they bring out her likable traits– resilience, loyalty, and determination.
I also love how the author showcases New York City’s famous places and interesting restaurants. I kept checking these places on Google Map and imagined the characters walking on the side streets, buying groceries, waiting and dining at restaurants, or bicycling around the park. I also checked Kathy Strobos’ favorite place to buy cookies, the Levain Bakery. This is why I love reading. It’s like traveling to different places without leaving home.
Partner Pursuit is a fun read that is reminiscent of a typical rom-com but does not fall short of sending its message about finding a balance between career and love.
Thank you, Kathy Sobros, Strawbundle Publishing, and NetGalley for the ARC in exchange for an honest review.
Books Unfold : A Book Review: Adultery by Paulo Coelho
March 26, 2025 by maximios • Books Review
Title: Adultery
Author: Paulo Coelho
Genre: Adult Fiction
Publisher: Vintage (August 19, 2014)
Publication Date: August 19, 2014
Print length: 274 pages
ASIN: B00ILXBA70
Paulo Coelho, the best selling author of The Alchemist, The Winner Stands Alone, and Eleven Minutes presents the effects of the mundanity of marriage on a woman who got it all – a successful career, a loving, wealthy husband, a picture-perfect family, a beautiful house in a rich city. In hopes of feeling alive again, she got herself into an affair with her ex-boyfriend from high school. The difficult moment of her life revealed the things she’s capable of, the state of her mind, and the things that matter most in her life.
Linda started with what she does in a day. She wakes up early in the morning, makes breakfast for her family, walks her children to school, goes to work, comes home after work, spends time with her husband and children, goes to bed, rinse and repeat.
One day, wanting to know if she’s depressed, she went out for lunch with her friend who had been on antidepressants, asking her questions about depression and its symptoms. She almost checked out all the boxes for being depressed.
The next day, she went on with her boring routine, doing the usual things she does every day. Everything was not interesting anymore even her job as a journalist. On that day, she was assigned to interview her ex-boyfriend who was a politician to talk about the same boring things: politics, taxes, crimes. The interview ended but Jacob König canceled his next appointment, closed the door, and kissed Linda who didn’t hesitate to give in. A sense of control, a sense of adventure, a sense of freedom awakened in her. Breaking the rules made her so happy. At home, she tried to conceal that happiness by acting normal, doing the same things after work to avoid suspicions from her husband. Even though on the outside she appeared the way she was yesterday, inside she acknowledged that she was having a crisis after long years of marriage.
Linda met Jacob again in an expensive restaurant, talking about their lives. She was surprised when Jacob asked her if she’s happy. She didn’t answer but her silence said it all. Jacob revealed that he was unhappy, too, and tired from trying to please the people around him including her wife. Shocked by his honesty, she thought that people who are plagued with inner struggles find their way to each other, aggravating their plight. Finally, someone understood her. She felt she was falling in love with him again.
Linda’s boss found out about her meeting with Jacob and asked her if she managed to get an exclusive interview with that politician. According to him, his source suggested that a foreign company was blackmailing Jacob to help them remove evidence of corruption in its own country. Photos and confirmation from the politician were what the newspaper needed to publicly condemn those who wanted to defile their political system. Her boss ordered her to get closer to him which was easy for he also knew that she’s going to meet Jacob again.
They met again but instead of having an in-depth talk about the real business, blackmail, corruption, and infidelity- Jacob also had an affair with another politician’s wife, Jacob changed the subject and asked her if she wanted to know why he wanted to see her again. He could see himself in her, unhappy and mentally exhausted. He asked whether she thought he was sexually attracted to her. They were not teenagers anymore. He just wanted to know why she’s not happy. Linda didn’t like his questions. Feeling attacked, she stood up and told him she was actually happy, he should go see a doctor to cure his depression without letting his wife know about it and try other things to make himself happy. But after saying all that, she kissed Jacob. She crossed the threshold of becoming a mistress which she thought brought her soul back.
After having several rendezvous afterward, Linda was convinced that she was in love with Jacob and that she wanted to snatch him from his wife. However, at one point, she came back to her senses, stopped seeing Jacob, and looked for help from psychiatrists and a shaman. The latter told her to go all the way to the end of the game for he saw in her soul has more light than darkness.
She took the shaman’s advice and continued to have secret meetings with Jacob. One thing that surprised her was her inclination to sadomasochistic sexual activities. Maybe she was not in love with him, he just awakened something in her.
After the election- Jacob won and became a member of the Council of State, Linda, together with her husband, attended an event hosted by a TV station. Jacob and her wife were at the party as well. Linda had been trying to hide or stay away from them but was unsuccessful when the host asked her to give a speech. In the middle of her speech, she saw Mr. and Mrs. König standing beside her husband. She ended her speech quickly and walked toward where her husband was standing. Madame König invited them to dinner to which Linda’s husband accepted.
Linda felt uneasy; Jacob was also wondering why her wife made this dinner happened. At the table, the four of them had a small talk but until Mme König talked about jealousy. She said she didn’t feel jealous of women who were having an affair with her husband but horniness. She would ask Jacob to do to her what he did to his mistresses who were unloved, insecure women. Jacob tried to convince the participants of this little show that his wife was just making that up, that it’s just her fantasies. Linda was shocked when she realized that Jacob enjoyed his wife’s treatment of him, the “unfaithful male”. She didn’t like where the conversation was heading so she got back at Mme. König, telling her that jealous people would never show in public how they feel. They would try to catch their partner’s infidelity by setting a trap and too naive to think they would be successful. If she had an affair with her husband, she would never fall for her trap. Linda’s husband was shocked. Mme König asked him if his wife really thought she was describing her. Linda was so angry with her.
Linda took a sleeping pill that night and slept for ten hours. The next day, she received a text from Jacob saying that she let the cat out of the bag. She cried and cried on that day. She realized it was time to be honest with her husband.
After work, she set the place by the fireplace with wine and assorted cheeses. Her husband came downstairs and saw what she did. They sat on the sofa. She said there’s something she wanted to tell him but it’s not about her fear of being depressed. Her husband interrupted her and talked about going after a dream that comes with a price, about why he’s controlling his jealousy, about how strong his love is more than anything else. He understood if she wanted to leave him. Linda cried and rest her head on his shoulder.
For the last time, Linda went to see Jacob at his office and made love with him. It was her way of ending their illicit relationship. She told Jacob that her husband loved her so much, he made her feel she’s worth a lot despite what she did. His wife must also want him to end this relationship so she could love him. They bid each other goodbye.
Linda spent the New Year with her husband in Interlaken where they visited before they got married. In order to add adventure to their marriage, they went paragliding. Linda was scared to try it but she went anyway. While she was flying in the sky, she realized a lot of things about love and truth. She’s finally free.
For me, the book is beyond its title and the lead character. The reader must keep in mind that this is in the point of view of Linda whose concept of love, marriage, and life should be taken with a grain of salt. She tried to justify her infidelity by distorting the true definition of love. Coelho showed the character of Linda through her fears, beliefs, and choices. Surprisingly, I became so engaged in the story that I felt sorry for her. I couldn’t put the book down for I was eager to know if she was able to overcome this challenge and would still have her husband, her family, and her career in the end.
The part that was confusing is the style of the dialogue. For the most part, I could follow what Linda tells until she got into a conversation with one of the characters. I would get confused because I had to think if she talking to me or to one of the characters.
All in all, this book is a good read. The story is not all about the journey of a woman finding change in her life but also a story of spiritual awakening. Every challenge in life brings a lesson and it keeps on coming back until you learn it. It’s like losing yourself in order to find yourself. It is just sad that in order to find herself, Linda hurt her husband along the way. Her husband’s true love kept the important things in her life.